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THE MCCAUGHEY SEPTUPLETS HAVE REOPENED THE DEBATE ABOUT INFERTILITY
TREATMENT IN A DRAMATIC WAY
by Caitlin Burke
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Here is a sampling of what readers think of the McCaughey septuplets and the issues their birth has raised. (See Notes from the Editors.)
"I have just watched the Dateline coverage of the Iowa septuplets, and been
moved to tears. My view is that nobody gets to vote about an issue like
this who has not experienced the harrowing ordeal of infertility and the
constant ache to have a child. Even amongst this group there will be
different views but at least the fertile world does not get to force their
moralistic and judgemental views on anyone that cannot have a child the in
"normal" way. The choice to turn to "assisted" conception, taking the risk
of multiples to increase your chance of conceiving one, and selective
reduction are extremely personal and are decisions that the couple involved
have to make for themselves, without the condemnation of the rest of the
world. I whole-heartedly support the Iowa couple who made their personal
choices with the best intentions and faith they could. I hope all of their
children continue to do well and that they will find the happiness they
wanted."
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"God had something to with this. I think he picked the right family. A
history of the family...they have large family and great faith. I can't
think of a better family to pick."
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"When I saw the profile on this couple on the news, and found out where
they were living, and what the husband did for a living and how much
money he made, all I could feel was disgust for the parents and sympathy
for the babies. And the thing that really made me choke was listening
to those two yammer on and on about their faith in God! Cripes, people,
God didn't have anything to do with this -- it was a society that considers
couples 'weird' for choosing to live child-free, that and lots of really
good drugs.
"When I saw the McCaugheys' beaming faces on the cover of Newsweek (with
Mrs. McCaughey heavily touched-up in Photoshop, apparently) with the headline "We Have
Our Faith In God", I thought they might as well have printed a headline
that said, "We're profoundly supersitious", or "We're selfish and ignorant",
or "We're dumb as a box of rocks". The guy's working a shit job for shit
wages, his wife isn't bringing home any money at all, they just went and
had seven babies on top of the child they already have, and they
say they "Trust in God". Jeezus H. Christ."
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"This couple has just saddled themselves with a nearly
impossible financial, logistical and social burden, and they're just happy
as clams about it. I'd like to see a follow-up story in about twenty years,
after the little darlings have had a chance to be neglected and abused and
wind up drug-addicted, in deep therapy, or beaten by one or both of their
parents.
I'd also like to check in, in a few years, on what's happening with the
already existing daughter, the odd one out, now currently known as 'who?'"
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"I think this whole episode says something about the state of
mainstream media; here's this couple of religious freaks, the mother
slugs down fertility drugs and gives birth to far more babies than a human
female was designed to bear, and the media, without questioning any of the
medical or ethical issues involved, proceeds to gush and fawn mindlessly
over them. It's as if they assume these issues aren't worth our attention
and that the media -- and we, as a nation -- would rather just gaze upon
the Holy McCaughey Septuplets with a collective 'awwwwwww.'"
Thanks to all the readers who shared their feedback with The Net Net!
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